Let me start with thank to Aine at
The Deepest Well for hosting
the Ancestors Ball 2010.
I am Roxanne, daughter of Patricia, daughter of Hazel.
I am also daughter of Jerry, son of Eva, daughter of Anna, daughter of Adelia.
My mother died when I was a child of 6 years old and she was only about 25. My memories of her are few. However, there have always been times that I thought I could feel her presence.
Patricia was a devoted Christian lady and wanted my brother and I brought up in the church. After she died, my Grandma and Grandpa took over taking us to church for the next few years. I don't remember Daddy going. I think he was mad at a God who would take his young wife and leave him with 2 small children.
Daddy got married less than 2 years later to a woman with three kids. This step-mother was like those stories of step-mothers we were told as children (think Cinderella, Snow White, etc). My dad died when I was 19, By this time I was married and had three kids.
I didn't know my mothers family when I was growing up. It is only through the magic of the internet that I now have made contact with some of her family. There is still much unknown.
My Grandma Eva was also a Christian woman but she probably would be ok with my having came to a different path. Grandma was a lively character.
One of my best memories was during the year that we lived with her before Daddy remarried. She played the organ and she ROCKED that thing. She had one of those "new-fangled" organs that had synthesized drums, horns, guitar and other instruments. (Keep in mind, this was over 40 years ago!) You have never heard "Onward Christian Soldiers" played like she played it. It was all she could do to tone it down when she played at the tiny country church.
When I was 16 yrs old, she let me drive her Cadillac one day. I was so surprised by her choice of radio station when I turned that car on. It was a hard rock station that at the time, I didn't even listen too. Of course, I was more into the Pop music at the time. I asked her why that station and she told me that she really likes that music. She died when I was 18. I still miss her a lot.
For the ancestors ball, you must expect there to be some real rocking music being played. Grandma wants it that way. I invite all of my ancestors known and unknown to come and enjoy the get-together!